Exploring the Need to Please

I found a blog post about needing to please and it occurred to me that many of us suffer from this, in some form. Here’s a thought from the blog that particularly caught my eye:

“You may be surprised to learn that people pleasing really isn’t all about satisfying the needs of others … it’s also about our effort to control what others think of us and fend off fears of rejection.”

Do You Have the Urge to Please?

  • Do you say yes, even when your mind says no?
  • Do you try to live up to others expectations?
  • Do you find it difficult to take initiative?
  • Do you cringe at the first sign of conflict?
  • Do you find it difficult to speak up for yourself?
  • Do you feel devastated at the thought of someone not liking you?
  • Do you lose sleep over the slightest altercation with another person?
  • Do you help people even when they haven’t asked, and then feel resentful if they don’t show ‘enough’ gratitude?

Click the link below to read more. It’s a fabulous post and offers great suggestions about how to handle people pleasing.

http://www.emotionallyresilientliving.com/exploring-the-irresistible-need-to-please

About terriponce

I write about twists, turns, past lives and suspense.
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2 Responses to Exploring the Need to Please

  1. Penn says:

    No, no, no, no, no, no and….. no. I guess I’m not the most popular person on the block but I’m happy and content and people grudgingly like me anyway. Lol.

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